Step 31: Owning Your Very Own Everyday Handbag/Purse


Welcome to step 31 of your 40 steps to femme program. Congratulations on making it this far and having been able to complete step 30. This brings us to the final 10 steps of the program. I know that it may feel sad that this will all be coming to an end really soon but I can guarantee you that these final 10 steps will be absolutely fabulous. They will challenge you on different levels and help to bring out the woman that you long to be.

Before we continue let’s take a moment to reflect on how it felt for you during the course of Step 30 where you exfoliated and shaved your whole body removing all your unwanted body hair. How did your clothes feel against your newly shaved body as you moved through the last week? Did it make you feel even more feminine than what you normally do? I trust that you will continue to keep your body silky smooth and feminine from now on.

This week as we embark on step 31 of the program, there will indeed be some shopping to be done. I’m sure you don’t feel at all averse to doing any shopping for something that will be making you feel even more girly at this stage of the program.

Essential Reading For Step 31

These are the articles that will be making up the essential reading for step 31 of the program.  As you will notice that is a fairly substantial number of articles to be read.

It is essential that you read all of the articles before you do any of the shopping that is part of step 31. The reason for that is that the information you will learn during the course of reading these articles will guide you as far as which specific handbag/purse is the ideal option for you, your lifestyle, and the kind of girl that you are.

Your Task For Step 31

There are two parts to your task for step 31. The first part of your task will be to complete all of the essential reading. Once you have completed your essential reading you will be ready to begin the main part of your task for step 31.

You will now be required to buy an everyday use handbag/purse just for yourself. I also suggest that read to the end of your task for step 31 before rushing out to buy your handbag/purse as the remainder of the task might influence the kind of bag you choose to buy.

You have the option to shop for your bag online or to go into a store to buy your bag.

Once you have purchased your handbag/purse you will need to fill it with all of the essential things that every girl always carries in her handbag.

When you have your handbag and you have filled it with your girly essentials, you will be ready to complete the final part of your task needed for step 31.

Because this is an everyday bag, you will need to have your handbag with you, in other words, carry your handbag, when you go about your daily life. By this, I mean carrying your handbag while you are at home and also carrying your handbag while you are out and about in public.

Therefore, with this in mind, you should be really careful as far as what choice you make for your everyday handbag. Unless, of course, you want to be seen out in public as girly as you possibly can be. 

An optional add-on for step 31 will be to take a pic of your bag and post it to one of your girly Pinterest boards.

Additional Reading

I am sure that you already know that there is more to being girly than can be crammed into just 40 steps. This is especially so when we start adding beauty products, makeup, and fashion choices into the collection.

That is why it is vital for your growing girly education that you will be required to read at least one additional Pink Femme post each day.

Here are the article categories again:

While doing your additional reading each day, make a note of which articles you found the most useful and why.

Remember to share your favorite Pink Femme articles on your girly Pinterest profile as well as other social media platforms where you have a girly profile. That way we can all inspire more people to be girly.

Minimum Requirement For Completion

The minimum requirement for the completion of Step 31 is relatively simple. You will be required to carry your handbag with you for seven whole days. By “whole day” I mean that you will have your bag with you at all times no matter where you go. 

Luckily for you, these do not need to be seven consecutive days but you need to have your handbag with you for an entire day and have your 7 separate days of carrying your handbag completed within a 3 week period.

This means that essentially you’ll have your handbag with you at all times at least every third day. This gives you the opportunity to look at your calendar and see what activities you will be doing and then choose your “handbag days” based on that.

Consequences Of Not Meeting The Minimum Requirements

Step 31 is a step that is relatively straightforward and practical to understand. However, if you are like most girls, it will feel as if you are making a big change in your life.

The consequence of not completing your 7 “handbag days” within a three-week period is that you will be required to restart step-31 from the beginning. That means re-reading all the essential reading and shopping for a new everyday handbag/purse.

If you fail to complete your 7 “handbag days” a second time, you will be required to restart step 31 again but with one notable difference. This time it will be compulsory to go shopping for your bag in a store and you must ask a store assistant for help in choosing your bag. Yes, you will need to tell them the bag is for you.

If you fail at completing step 31 for the third time you will be required to go back to repeat step 30 before you get to try and complete step 31 again.

If you skip the social sharing of your favorite Pink Femme articles, you will be required to share an extra 2 articles for each one you skipped, including one article on a social media platform that is not Pinterest.

Be sure to come back and comment on how completing this task felt. How did you enjoy shopping for your very own everyday bag? How did it feel going about your day-to-day activities out in public with your handbag? Did it make you feel more feminine than you felt before completing the step?

Once you have finished this step, click here to move on to the next step. You can also click here to go to the 40 Steps to Femme course list.

Edith

I stay in shape by trail running. When I am not writing posts to help you be as feminine as you can be, I work as a therapist.

2 thoughts on “Step 31: Owning Your Very Own Everyday Handbag/Purse

  1. Pingback: Step 30: Shaving Legs, Underarms, And Whole Body | PinkFemme
  2. As soon as i decided to wear feminine trousers and leggings without pockets on a daily basis I realised how essential it is to carry a handbag. I prefer a small soft shoulder bag and bought 3 a black, red and pink one. I’ve got used to carrying it everywhere now.

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