We all want to be more girly and live a more girly life. Unfortunately, sometimes the opportunities to get fully glammed up are few and far between. That is why I encourage girls to do something every day that helps them feel more femme on the inside.
Do what you can for where you are to give the femme part of you some air to breathe. If you suppress her for too long she will demand to be set free to play like what happened to Candace…
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This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
I couldn’t stand it any longer. Maybe it was after getting back into posting captions and writing so much about being girly. Maybe it was all of the encouragement that many of you have returned in my direction. Whatever it was, I had to go all girl–not a stitch of male clothing, no matter how gender neutral it appeared. So, that’s how I dressed today (or yesterday by the time of this post).
It was very casual; androgynous really. But it worked for the urge. Panties and a non-padded compression sports bra. Women’s guide pro pants and a women’s ¾ length raglan T-shirt–both from Eddie Bauer. My ladies’ no-show socks and Adidas Adizero running shoes (black with dark pink trim) completed the clothing options. A few leather bracelets and a wee little spritz of my wife’s perfume capped it off. All of this, after some womanish body grooming.
It was tom-boyish enough that I didn’t worry about public scrutiny. The only concern that I had was possible bra lines or a VPL in the rear-clinging, no back pocket, pants. The shirt was baggier than what I would wish, but it was cute. In all, it wasn’t necessarily an all-girl look. It was girly enough for me and I needed it…badly. And you know what? As far as I could tell, no one even batted an eye. I’m still trying to decide if that is good or not. There seems to be a part of me that wishes for just a little “second-glance criticism/laughter.”
As I mentioned, it wasn’t drastic by any means, but it satisfied a craving. I believe that’s something that we feminine boys need from time to time–a day out, being girly, acting girly, dressed girly. It’s helpful to be more than a secret panty wearer, even if only on rare occasions. Sometimes, you have to get out and be girly. That’s it. You just have to glam it up some.
Have a wonderful day, my friends,
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.