Where Is It Taking You?

For all of us, our girly path evolves as we grow as people. Maybe you are just starting out and have no idea what your girly path will look like, and that is totally OK. Even if you feel that you are sure of your girly path, it will look different in 5, 10, or 15 years from now.

Something that will change as we mature is our sense of style. Revealing, sexy outfits will evolve into elegance as time passes. No matter where your girly path takes you and how your sense of style changes, stay true to the woman you are deep inside. Hugs.

This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.

Do you ever wonder about where you might be in 5, 10, or 15 years from now in regard to your girliness?  I do.  I don’t think that I will ever purge it all.  I do think that as I grow older than I already am (I’m 46), it might become more natural, but with less outward expression.  In other words, I’m just not confident that the cross-dressing part of it will hang on into my retirement years.  Maybe it will. 

Yet, I do think that my increasing femininity in thought, gestures, speech, disposition, etc. will continue to grow.  I guess the latter is probably the more real aspect.  Clothing is what it is.  It’s clothing.

In relation to the caption, I suspect that it’s too cryptic to make much sense.  That’s okay.  They don’t always have to be so specific.  Sometimes, a good caption needs to let the viewers use their imagination.  But what does it mean to me? 

I imagine a boy who is curious about this nagging feeling in the pit of his stomach.  He’s a man who can’t seem to explain why he’s so attracted to how girls act, talk, move, dress, etc.  It’s different than an attraction to females.  He’s so intimately attracted to their “ways” that he’s jealous.  He wants that in his life, in his body, in his days…in his ways.  He’s questioning if he should have been born “as a girl”, if he has some fetish, if he’s submissive, if he’s interested in a cross-dressing hobby, or maybe that he sees himself as someone who can be both a boy and be feminine. 

He’s struggling to identify his heart and thoughts.  They’re there.  He’s not forcing them.  And they’re growing and beginning to consume him.  He’s wondering if this gut-feeling has something to do with his sexual desires.  Is he gay? Is he bi? Is he something else or does it really matter?  He feels alone because he’s not sure if he can talk to anybody, even a counselor. 

So, he spends a great deal of time reading, fantasizing, meditating about it.  He even debates himself, feels guilt, feels embarrassment, and maybe hates himself.  But then he sees the joy of it, the acceptance of being girly, the tenderness and peace that envelopes him as he begins to lean more into what he is discovering as his most natural way of being. 

Maybe I see myself.  Maybe I’m thinking of you.  Whoever may be on my mind in my heart, I say to you, “Don’t worry boy, you’ll get there.”

Love ya all!  You are so very special to me and I can’t say enough of how proud I am to have you as my girly followers.  You’re the best.

CandieHart 

Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.

If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.

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