What’s Your One Thing?

I know that for many of you the opportunities to be fully girly are hindered by the realities of your daily life.

No matter what your limitations are. No matter what it is that you need to project to the outside world – be that family or job. There will always be something that you can do each and every day that will help you feel girly on the inside.

Take those opportunities with both hands and cherish them. Do not let the chance to feel girly pass you by. The girl that lives deep down within you needs nurturing too.

This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.

I would guess that most of my followers live their lives in a similar way as I do: mostly male, but with some minor adaptations to feel feminine.  If you are one of our heroes who lives life on a larger feminine scale, whether transitioning or being blatantly girly, then I would think that this seems novice to you.  We love the inspiration you give to us and we ask that you please be patient with our “little” tricks. 

We want more girliness in our lives, but because of personal restraints, we choose not to be as obviously feminine.  That doesn’t stop us from something, even if it might be just one thing.

For me, my “one thing” is typically shoes.  I love shoes.  I love my women’s shoes.  Other daily things could be panties, working out in girly clothes at home, women’s jeans, tucking through the day, working on my gestures and posture, lotions, etc., etc.  It’s not always just one thing.  But if it IS one thing, it is most definitely shoes.  That has always been my thing and I have finally gotten to a point where almost every pair of shoes I wear is women’s.

So, what is your one thing?  I hope you’ll comment below.

Here’s the thing.  I’ve been going about this “girly” thing for a long time; and if you are as passionate as I am, but without the free reign to dress however femininely as you wish, then give yourself a break and incorporate at least one girly thing a day into your life.  It may seem small, but for your mental well-being, it’s big.  Sometimes, we have to major in the minors and let the little things give us comfort and peace.

I hope you all have a wonderful day!

CandieHart   

Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.

If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.

If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.