In this post, Candace contemplates a question that many girls would want to be true for them. She is lucky to have a spouse that is mostly supportive of her girliness.
I am not saying that being in a long-term relationship is always easy and smooth-sailing because it isn’t. When the both of you are femme there are unique challenges.
That said, finding a partner that is supportive of a girly you is possible. Candace is just one example of that. Hugs
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
If you have followed along with my content for some time, you know that my wife has gone through seasons of encouraging my femininity to tolerating, accepting, and participating to turning a blind eye and discouraging it. It’s hard to figure out, sometimes, what season she is in. Wherever she is, I have tried to be sympathetic to her, if for no other reason, than to say I love her.
But, what if my wife shifted gears? What if she decided to truly turn me girly? I wonder what that would look like? I would think that I would love it. I would think that I would surrender myself fully to her wishes. I would think that we would have such a fun time with it, creating my own feminine wardrobe. I can imagine donating all of my male clothes and replacing my drawers and closets with nothing but women’s clothing.
At the same time, I can also imagine it being a very slow process. LOL, maybe she’s actually turning me girly right now, but it’s such a slow process that I don’t even realize it’s happening! Maybe she’s reading this and thinking that she has me right where she intends for me to be as she contemplates the next steps. Maybe she’s keeping a journal of my progress!
But, what if it was more than my current perception of being a girly boy? What if it was a full turning to womanhood? Would I still want that if it meant surrendering every ounce of the boy in me? Could I go so far as wearing dresses and skirts for all to see? Would I truly want that?
What if? It’s the kind of stuff that our favorite fiction stories are made of. I’m just rambling in my thoughts on this old caption. Tell me what you think. What if your wife/girlfriend (or boyfriend) had a true desire (beyond accepting) to turn you girly? How would that look to you?
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.