How is my little pantie-wearing girl coming along then?
This week’s task may quite possibly involve some more shopping. You have no doubt noticed that panties come in so many different design styles compared to boring male underwear. Have you ever thought why that is?
Why do women need different styles and designs of panties? That’s right sweetie, women have so much more choice in outer clothes. We have skirts, dresses, shorts, pants, and even jeans. All of these come in a variety of colors and fabrics. Some are form-fitting while others are loose-fitting. Some are high waist while others fit lower at our hips. All of these choices have a style of pantie that works the best.
For instance, wearing high waist panties with low rise jeans will just look super tacky with your panties sticking out the top of your jeans all the way around. Likewise low rise hipster panties with a high waist skirt, shorts or pants will show off an unsightly horizontal pantie line across your bum.
This week you will be looking at the outerwear that you have planned for the coming week and weeks. Then, honestly decide if the panties you have will give your outfit a flattering look. If not, then you will need to find the panties that will work with your outfit.
The good news is that I will give you a couple of options here of panties that work really well with certain types of male outerwear. Soon I will make a more detailed post covering all the styles of panties and the types of outfit that they will best match with. After all, when you step out in your Halloween “costume” you want to be sure that your underwear compliments your outfit perfectly.
There is a good chance that the panties you bought for step one of the program will be appropriate for at least one or two of your outfit choices. However, I am sure that you will need to expand your pantie collection with at least one new pair. Use what you have until your new panties arrive, but be sure to match your choice of pants to the panties you already have.
Last week you bought plain virginal white panties for your first steps toward femininity. This week be a little more adventurous with colors. By the end of this week, I expect you to have at least one pair of panties in pink. Look for options that are lacy and silky.
Before we look at the examples of panties to choose from, let’s summarize what your task for the week entails. Wear panties every day of the week. Match your pantie choice to the type of pants that you will be wearing. Go shopping via the Amazon links provided to find the style of panties that you need for the clothes that you want to wear.
One final point, be sure to wash out your dirty panties in the evening and dry them overnight.
Boy Shorts
Even though boy shorts got their inspiration from men’s briefs, there is nothing manly about these panties. This is especially true if you choose a pair that is satiny with a touch of lace.
Boy shorts are rectangular on the thighs and are almost similar to hipsters but have a lower-cut leg.
When To Wear: The good news about boy shorts is that because they fit horizontally below your bum cheeks they have no visible panty lines. This makes them one of the most versatile panties you can own. You can wear them under tight or looser fitted clothes including jeans, trousers, and shorts. If you wear your jeans on your hips be sure to choose your boy shorts that also fit lower on your hips, or look at a pair of hipsters.
Boy shorts can also be worn under skater skirts, tennis skirts or even as swimwear. Be aware that if you are wearing skimpy shorts or hot pants the legs of a pair of boy shorts will extend below the leg of your shorts and that will look a bit strange.
Here is a link to a page that I have put together listing my recommendations for the boy short pantie.
Classic Briefs
These are the regular everyday panties worn by millions of women the world over every day of the week. These are also the same style of panties that you wore during Step One of the program.
Classic briefs are one of the most comfortable styles of panties that you can get. Just be very aware of how tight your outer clothes fit across your bum because these also have the biggest possibility of giving you visible pantie lines.
Every girl keeps a couple of pairs of classic briefs in black as period panties as sanitary pads fit the gusset exactly and any leakage won’t cause permanent unsightly stains.
When To Wear: You can wear them under any high waisted jeans, pants, shorts, or skirts. Classic briefs are every girl’s first choice of panties under a dress.
Here is a link to a page that I have put together listing my recommendations for the classic brief.
Hipster
Hipster panties are also often called hip-huggers as the waistband sits on your hips. Most hipster panties are styled very similarly to boy shorts but for the fact that the leg openings are cut higher.
Hipster panties are super comfortable and almost never show any panty lines.
When To Wear: You can wear hipster panties with any low waist jeans, pants, shorts and skirts. In fact, I would only not wear hipsters with yoga pants and other gym wear.
Here is a link to a page that I have put together listing my recommendations for the hipster pantie.
Thong
There is nothing that screams sexy like a thong. And that is exactly how you will feel all day wearing one. Every time you sit down you will be aware of how exposed your bum cheeks are. Doesn’t that sound so wonderfully erotic sweetie?
Your sexy thong will sit almost three inches below your waist and will rest almost on your hip bone. Your thong will have a normal triangular patch at the front. However, you will have very minimal butt coverage. It is that exposed feeling that will give you that deliciously erotic tingle when you wear them.
When To Wear: Thongs work best with body contouring dresses, shirts, pants, shorts, and jeans. They work superbly with yoga pants too. Any time that you want to be 100% sure to avoid panty lines, wear a thong. In the change rooms at the gym, I just about only see thongs around me. No girl ever wants to show panty lines at the gym.
Here is a link to a page that I have put together listing my recommendations for the thong pantie.
Some final thoughts on color choices
Please girls, when you are wearing white skirts, dresses or pants always match the color your panties to your skin tone and never the color of your outerwear. The same counts for when you are wearing light color outerwear that is not white.
This is especially true if you have a darker skin tone or are suntanned.
Additional Reading
I am sure that you already know that there is more to being girly than can be crammed into just 40 steps. This is especially so when we start adding beauty products, makeup, and fashion choices into the collection.
That is why it is vital for your growing girly education that you will be required to read at least one additional Pink Femme post each day.
Here are the article categories again:
While doing your additional reading each day, make a note of which articles you found the most useful and why.
Be sure to come back and comment below on how you managed with the second step of your 40 Steps to Femme program.
Once you have finished this step, click here to move on to the next step. You can also click here to go to the 40 Steps to Femme course list.
I haven’t been as careful as I should with this, except for at the office. Thank you for pointing it out!
I need to buy some more hipster panties, and I just bought some very sexy thongs at VS
Pink panties , they make me feel totally girly . other colors have a place and a time, like around a girls high heeled ankles and feet. Im curious how many more steps before 8 know how far along im into my sissy self .
This is so helpful! Boyshorts are definitely my favorite bc they give the most *security* but hide the most visible lines
Bought about 5 boy shorts yesterday (Friday) on Amazon so they should be here on Sunday/Monday. I made sure to include at least one pink pair. Will update as soon as I receive them! XOXO
Hello mistress I hope you don’t mind me calling you that I am so happy to be starting this second step I have been living this way for quite a while I don’t have no Male clothing no more is all female clothing but I was reading over this and I have learned so much about pairing my clothes I have always paired my clothes with matching undergarments bra and panties I didn’t know but I am so thankful for this 40 step program and having a wonderful teacher such as you to show me the way I am trying to live is the girl that I should have been born as and with your help and guidance I know I can become the girl I’m supposed to be thank you so much again for this program I love this program and I think it was a wonderful thing I will come in again at the end of this and when I start the next step thank you so much your panty wearing little girl
Hello again I am so excited to have completed this step I have learned so much and then when I look in the mirror I look and feel so much more feminine and feeling more comfortable in my clothing and very excited to move on to the next step I’m very excited can complete this 40 step program thank you again
Hey your posts have given me a lot of confidence I love following them. Cant wait to continue <3 advice is welcome
I’m a little ahead of the curve perhaps as I’ve been wearing panties pretty much exclusivley for the past few years. I have to agree with Edith, quality tells. I started out with very inexpensive and cheaply made panties. They were fine at the time becuase they were what I could afford. But they didn’t last too long. I eneded up having to replace them more often, which made them about the same price as better quality panty. Getting something just slightly more expensive made a big difference. The quality of the construction was better as were the materials. I adore my panties and I’ll never go back to boy underwear again!
I have tried” boy shorts” panties many times. They do not work for this boi because parts of me always find a way through by my leg. I need more elastic around my bottom.
My gf took me to the adult book store for a few pairs…shes keeping my boxers locked up for now
Mistress Edith – this is superhelpful guidance! I have been wearing panties only for year. You share so many intricate details about panties that I wasn’t aware of. Thank you!!
This has been very useful. While I do have many different panties, different in colour and style, I did not fully understand the logic behind wearing them. I thought it was a question of how one felt that day.
I know better now.
Thank you
luci
I brought thirteen new pairs of panties for this step; different colours and styles.
It was good to give a lot of extra thought to which pair to wear that particular day, dependant on my mood, what I had to do and of course whether I would be in a skirt, shorts, trousers or jeans.
I also organised my panty drawer to make sure each pair is neatly folded and presented.
Even simply opening the drawer is now a sexy experience which enhances my femininity.
hipsters are the ultimate . love the cheeky way they sit on your butt too
I have a dentist appointment this morning. I decided to snug white shorts. I was originally going to select a white boy short. This lesson reminded me to match my skin tone. I selected a nude lacy thong. Thank you for the lessons. <3
Hugs,
Jaqi
What a lovely week you created for me! I had never considered matching underwear to anything except my mood. Each day I considered what would go best with my outerwear. I pondered the look I was going for. Sporty? Feminine? Casual? Mmmm…clearly I need more panties. I have a lot of hipsters now, and frilly girly panties, but need more of each type you described.
Thank you Miss Edith on your insight and direction. My white panties are on the way. Although I have dabbled with dressing in the past, I am excited to attempt a formal training process. Embracing the female me will do much easier with your guidance. Simple things like proper panty color and style under outfits is the kind of guidance I need. I’m willing, now there is a plan. Thanks again!
Excited for this step I planned out many different outfits to make sure I have many different panties 🙂