There will be days when motivation grabs you so deeply that it feels as if you have pink blood flowing inside you. However, there will also be days when it feels as if living a girly life is pointless and that it will be easier to just conform to what society expects of you.
No matter how motivated or not you might feel, remember this one important thing – girly is part of who you are as a person. So, my darlings, let’s all add a layer of girliness to our lives today even if we don’t feel motivated.
Somewhere in the world, there is a girl who is stuck in boy mode and wishes that she had the girly opportunity that you have today. If you don’t feel motivated to be girly for you, be girly for her. Hugs.
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This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
There will be days when you might think that it’s senseless. The thought might enter your mind, “I’m a guy, I should think like a guy, talk like a guy, move like a guy, dress like a guy…do guy stuff in guy ways”…now, insert Tim the Tool Man neanderthal grunts. It’s going to happen. That’s one of the many challenges of wanting to be girlier and girlier while maintaining your male status.
I’m not someone who is girly all the time–except for in my heart. My passions for femininity run as deep as a tight lace thong, but I’m also a living, breathing, grunting man. Nonetheless, just because I’m not girly all the time doesn’t mean that I have to squash something that is so incredibly special about who I am. And neither do you. Neither of us has to choose a stereotypical behavior or pattern of expression based on our gender at birth or by societal pressures of gender. Actually, you and I both could be on the verge of realizing something more spectacular about ourselves as long as we don’t succumb to those perceptions. We might, in fact, find our true selves.
Stay with it, my friends. Keep your panties on and stay the course.
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
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