Slide Into It

The vast majority of new girls just starting out become fixated on their girly looks and “passing”. However, what most new girls don’t realize is that looks are only part of being able to “pass”. Your posture, the way you carry yourself, and the way you move are far more telling than the outfit you wear or the way you have done your makeup.

That is why I try to make girls focus on doing things every day that make them feel more femme on the inside. That way the girl within you can express herself a little more every day and that will make it easier for you to “pass” once you get to the stage of going fully femme.

This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.

You might not be as inclined as me or many others who happen to follow my postings to truly want a more open girliness in your life.  Maybe you like to crossdress on the side.  Good for you.  No judgment here.  But I want to tell you something, dear friend.  If my experience has taught me anything, it is that girliness will always be waiting on you.  I don’t think my experience is rare.  I think it’s quite common for hobby crossdressers to eventually want more femininity in their lives, especially as they get older and the day-to-day grind of being “manly” fails to answer life’s longings.

Personally, I think I’ve been sliding into a healthy girly boy balance.  There was a time when it was all about pretty clothes and trying to see how close I could get to “passing” as a woman.  Maybe with the help of some professional makeup artists, I could, but on my own, it wasn’t going to happen.  I’ve gravitated, instead, to a much less desire to look like a woman to a greater desire to simply be girly as my boy self. 

Yes, this still includes female clothing, but it’s more about the disposition, the attitude, the self-care, the girly passion, etc.  Trying to be a macho manly type all the time doesn’t cut it for me.  It’s not that being a man is horrible or that being manly is a waste of energy.  There’s a lot of manliness about myself that I would not change.  Girliness simply calls to me and I’m more than happy not to keep it waiting.  I’m happy to answer it, to slide into it, and not to keep her waiting.  The panties and bras, the shoes, the pants, the shirts, the workout wear, the lotions and creams, the opportunities, etc. etc. …it’s all waiting on me…on you. 

Just slide into Girliness.  Don’t keep her waiting.  It might be more “you” than you ever thought it could be.

CandieHart

Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.

If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.

If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.