The beautiful girl that lives within you is always looking for ways to show you that she is there. She works in subtle ways that most often only you will ever notice.
If you have been practicing your girly posture or how to carry your arms while you walk, those are the ways she will let you know that she is there.
There is no need to go and sit in a dark corner and try and find her. She’ll find you as long as you are observant enough to notice the subtle signals she is sending you.
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
It was a normal day for me; a little bit of work and then a run to Home Depot to browse the shelves for ideas, collect a few tools that I think I might need in the next five years, and gather a few supplies for a home project.
As I was walking through the store, I happened to notice that I was carrying myself in a feminine way–at least more than usual. It was my gait (or glide), my arm positions, and the way I responded to the workers (almost flirtatious whether boy or girl). I had not intended to act that way. It just happened. And it felt good; perhaps better, knowing that I had no intention to cover it up or revert back to my manly strut through the hardware store.
Here’s the irony: Earlier that same morning, I had created this caption, kind of dreaming that there was some mystical feminizing fairy, searching for a boy with a growing passion to be feminine so she could sprinkle her magic dust on him.
I was obviously dreaming in a fictional fantasy world, but after what happened at the store, now I can’t help but think that if I am searching out femininity, I’m sure to find her–as if femininity could be searching for me. Maybe it was the purple panties I was wearing or the fruity lotion I could still smell. Perhaps I spent too long in the morning wondering what else I could write on this girly boy blog page.
Maybe I had planted a subliminal idea in my head with the caption (I could totally see me wearing what she has on). Whatever it was, femininity caught me and brought out some girliness without me being aware.
If there is anything that I have learned in cultivating girliness in my life, it is that a person can and will evolve with a girly frame of mind. It will simply happen. A person can’t immerse his heart into something so grand without its truth coming to life within him.
Keep reading, watching, listening, viewing, and observing femininity. The more you seek it, the better opportunity it will have to open itself up within you. Of course, you could always wait for the feminizing fairy to dowse you with her girly dust, but chances are, that you’ll need to keep searching, trusting that femininity will happen and grow in you–more and more each day.
Have a beautiful girly day, my friends!
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.