My Inner Happy


For most of us, there is an image that we need to project to the world that does not resonate with what feeds our inner happiness.

You have likely noticed how much more you smile and laugh when you let your inner girl out to play.

Don’t let your drab days grind you down. She is still there inside you. Let her show you the beauty in what is around you. Maybe you find something that you can share on your girly Pinterest profile.

Find something to nurture your inner happy as often as possible.

This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.

I’m kind of a sober-spirited guy.  There’s not much that alarms me, but there’s also not much that prompts me to act carefree.  I’m a confident man with broad shoulders and chest, I’m over 6 feet tall, and “well-maintained”.  I guess you could say, that for the most part, I appear “put together” for a guy.  I don’t look sad, just serious.

But when I’m girly, my load is lifted.  I smile more.  I laugh more.  I let my guard down more.  Even if I’m not dressed girly, when the girly spirit within me comes out, people enjoy being around me.  I’ll never be the life of the party, but when I’m girly, there is at least some spunk to me.  So, in spite of my slightly stoic disposition in “male-mode,” a different switch is flipped when I let my girliness come to the surface.

I guess you can understand why I enjoy myself when I’m more Candie and less of my manly self.  It’s one reason why I love the happiness of the girl in the picture.  She looks like the golden nugget in my otherwise galvanized heart.  She’s like an image of what I see inside of me: a curled-up version of my girly self wanting so desperately to be freer to express herself.  She’s happy to be where she is, but I know that she would shine if she had a chance to live freely.

Well, enough metaphors for the day!  I hope you’re able to be happy in the most general sense.  However, your girliness can be expressed, whether, in small or big ways, I wish for you to be happy.  All of life doesn’t have to be dull.  Girliness can help.  Your inner happiness might just be a delightful girl wanting some more time to explore.

CandieHart

Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.

If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.

If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.

Edith

I stay in shape by trail running. When I am not writing posts to help you be as feminine as you can be, I work as a therapist.

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