When it comes to feminization, there are two ways that the process can take.
There are many potential girly boys patiently waiting for someone to come into their lives that will take charge of their girly transformation. The reason is that if someone else is taking charge and “forcing” them then they do not need to take ownership of the fact that they always wanted to be girly.
The second way is when you can look yourself in the mirror and say: “I’m girly,” and then be true to your feminine energy that you acknowledge exists within you.
I wish that more girly boys would accept that they are actually in the second group. It will save them years of missed opportunities to be and feel girly. I also see that girly boys from this second group are the ones that best respond to encouragement and support like what we have here in Pink Femme. Hugs to you, my girly friends.
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
I’m really more of an advocate for men being true to their femininity and feeling encouraged about it than I am as an advocate for feminizing men. At the same time, I wish there were more males who would be feminine and that there would be a wider acceptance and encouragement for girliness among males.
More “boys” should be girly. I hope that I’m helping to move some men in that direction. Maybe it’s you. It’s exciting to know that I might have a special part in some males embracing femininity. It lifts my heart over the idea that perhaps you, are now a better person because of your progressing girliness and all as a result of some small influence I have made.
I hope you all have a wonderfully girly day! Put your panties on and be you.
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.
I do agree that more boys should be more girly. When I was very young, I always felt that I lived in the wrong body. I’ve dress up as a closet crossdresser for decades. If I dared to make any changes, my family and friends would disown me. If someone was able to support me, I would be all in. I wish all of this happened when I was younger. It was a great article.
Hi John I am in the same situation like you, is very difficult and I try to be the girl I always meant to be when I have a chance. I am from a very difficult country but now I am in USA in the South Florida area, I though here was different but looks is the same for women like us.
I love to be your friend and share this with you.
Let ke know.
XOXO
I’ve always been sad that it was accepted for girls to be “Tomboys”, but it was not acceptable for boys to be girly. I have been more girly my entire life, I prayed every night to wake up as a girl starting around age 5 for years. I was fortunate that Barb and Cathy would let me play “dress-up” with them, I was like a doll for them. I love Easter time for the very pretty dresses, and in high school letting me wear their prom dresses. Now being Medicare age, I still prefer to wear women’s wear due to the greater styles, options, colors and patterns. Having females help us males be more feminine is wonderful. I would love for more females to have the desire to help males be more feminine and that it would be as acceptable as it is for a female to be a Tomboy or to be Butch.