There is something that I have noticed repeatedly when people choose to become more girly. They tend to start making healthier lifestyle choices.
Staying well hydrated is key to having healthy soft and smooth skin. The same goes for cutting down on processed food and filling your diet with more fresh fruit and vegetables.
Making the right nutrition choices becomes easier when you want to look your best in your yoga pants and sports bra. Speaking of which, as we become girlier we want our figure to reflect that too so we take the time to get regular girly workouts in – even if at first it is only an excuse to wear our cute workout outfits.
Make more healthy choices because that is what the girly part of you wants. Allow each of those healthy choices to make you feel more girly on the inside. Hugs
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
Women tend to live longer than men. That might seem like the perfect reason for a man to be womanly, but there’s obviously more to do with it than the way we dress, act, or perhaps change our body parts. I doubt that anyone has ever come to a clear reason why women average longer lives. Suggestions have been anywhere from work-load to tensions, to testosterone vs estrogen, to height and weight, to habits, etc. I am not capable of sharing a medical opinion, so I’ll leave it to the experts.
What I am capable of doing for you, however, is making a suggestion based on my own experience with health, both of body and mind. Though I’ve been a crossdresser most of my life, it wasn’t until later in life that I preferred femininity, which goes far beyond clothing choices. I like to think that deciding to be feminine (or at least more feminine) has led to healthier choices and peace of mind. I make disciplined decisions about the foods I eat. I exercise for my health instead of training to be a bulkazoid.
I’m cautious about certain strains on my physical body too. Much of this has aided me in developing tranquility and having a greater connection to my whole being. I believe in the holistic integration of self. That means, in my own thinking, to be in harmony in body and mind. Having such a harmonious spirit can’t help but create healthy dividends across life’s accounts. All the girly clothing, then, becomes an expression of that level of health, and all without losing its fun appeal–perhaps it enhances it.
Maybe you have been testing a lot of the serene waters of femininity. Perhaps you have been crossdressing for the taboo allure of it. Could it be that the “sissy” fetish/culture is arousing to you? You’re somewhere on some girly spectrum or you wouldn’t be reading this. If by chance, you’re transitioning, I doubt this advice goes well for you. You’re on a different spectrum of beauty, but perhaps there is some value for you.
Nonetheless, can I offer this simple word of advice for you? Decide to be feminine. You won’t regret making such a subtle change to your body and mind because it can truly transform your whole being. And for that reason, it can be good for your health, even as, or especially as, you continue as a pantied boy.
If that doesn’t convince you, however, then perhaps I can be less wordy, less technical, and more casual: It just feels right. It just feels right, for the right person (maybe you) to be immersed in some range of femininity.
Let’s get girly!
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.