All of us have at some level a natural inclination to be feminine. How do I know? If you had no natural inclination to be feminine, you wouldn’t be here on this page right now, reading this post.
I know that many of us don’t have the opportunity to dress feminine every day or to live an outwardly feminine lifestyle. However, we can all be feminine on some level even if we are the only ones that ever see it.
When I was composing the 40 Steps to Femme program, I made many of the steps about things that we all are able to do. When we are naturally inclined to be feminine, we can practice our posture as well as how to walk, stand, sit, and eat in a feminine way. These things help strengthen the feminine part of who we are no matter what we are wearing.
Are you ready to admit that you are naturally inclined to be feminine? What are you doing today that strengthens the feminine part of who you are? Hugs.
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This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
I remember walking into the local Walmart a few years ago when I said something or did something that prompted my wife to say, “You’re such a girl.” There was nothing about that day that could be related to my crossdressing or my wife’s understanding of that. She just said it. It’s not the only time she has said something like that. And she’s not the only one. As manly as I can appear on a regular basis, it comes out. Am I feminine? Is it who I am? Does it just come naturally to me? Those might be some good questions.
I’ve decided that at this moment in time, maybe the best way to describe me is that I’m naturally INCLINED to be feminine. I guess you could think of it as a little bit of natural femininity mixed in with some girly desire layered on top of effeminate interests with a growing detest for toxic masculinity within me and in our culture. I’m inclined to be feminine. To want to be feminine. To feel, act, talk, gesture, etc. in feminine ways. I want to see it more in our world too.
Maybe you’re inclined to be feminine as well. Perhaps, instead, it comes very naturally. I envy you if it does. Or it could be that you have to work at it and force it because you have a passion for something that you enjoy, but it isn’t necessarily woven into your character. Whatever the case, I think we can all agree that femininity in us is a “new” natural that we believe makes us better people. It IS something to want and to develop in such a way that it becomes very natural. That’s easy for some of us. That’s hard for some of us.
What about you? Does it come naturally? Are you inclined like me? Or is it a challenge to cultivate it? Share in the comments below.
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
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