I Want to Be a Light


Hardly a week goes by when I don’t receive a message from a Pink Femme reader. Some of those messages share details of how that particular girl is progressing on her femme journey.

Other messages, however, are from girls looking for erotic content – especially with degradation and humiliation themes. To my mind, the internet is already awash with that kind of content, and Pink Femme can do more good by being a small corner of positive affirmation.

I want to be a light to help those on the girly path find their way. Candie feels the same way. Just by being girly, you might be the inspiration for a girl that is still hesitant to take her first step – without you even knowing it.

This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.

I have lots of purposes in life, many of which are being fulfilled in other ways outside of this blog.  But within this blog, I see an opportunity to have a fulfilling purpose.  And that is to be a light for other men/boys who are either curious or are passionate about being girly.  While it is true that some girlies prefer the fetish side and others are working their way into therapy and surgeries to become women, I find it is important to help boys find some sort of peace and contentment in a life of girliness.

I’m certainly not the girliest guy, either in dress or action.  That’s due in big part to my age and circumstances.  I often joke that I was born a generation or two too late.  But I do see that I can encourage others in their girliness or toward girliness.  If anything, I simply want girlies to know that they are special, they are human, they are real, they are loved, and that they don’t have to feel guilt, embarrassment, or pain because they’re feminine in a world that expects them to be something they are not.

Because of those things I said above, I won’t ever be the perfect example.  But I do think I can be a light.  I’m trying to light a way into a life of girliness that others can follow with me and beyond me.  I hope you’ll be such a light for others too.

I love you, girlies.  You’re making a difference!

CandieHart

Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.

If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.

If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.

Edith

I stay in shape by trail running. When I am not writing posts to help you be as feminine as you can be, I work as a therapist.

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