I Shouldn’t Have To Beg

These days it seems as if the world is getting crazier by the minute. It would be easy to get swept along by the negativity and division dominating the media. It may even feel as if having just one girly thought is in some way wrong in our current world because you are the only person with those feelings.

The truth is that you are not alone in your girly feelings and thoughts. You have thousands of girly sisters all across the world who feel the way you do.

You already know how doing something small that connects you with your girly feelings can brighten your day and make you feel happier? It is the same for your girly sisters even if you have never met them. I shouldn’t have to beg you to do something girly for yourself because it makes you feel happier.

However, we all know that we can’t all be living our full girly lives 24/7. Sometimes there are life circumstances that prevent us from being as girly as we want to and for some of us we might need to go days or weeks with no girliness in our lives at all.

My challenge to you today, right now, is to do something girly, no matter how small, that will help you to feel girly on the inside. Once you have done that, I challenge you to add one more layer of girliness to your day today if you are at all able to do so. Do that for all your sisters that are not able to do anything today to feel girly because of their circumstances. Do that today, so that next time when you are prevented from being girly you can know that you have a sister somewhere out there that is carrying the girly torch for you.

This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.

I’m probably more tuned-in with my passion for girliness right now than I am at other times in the year.  I can’t necessarily pinpoint the reason, though I think the arrival of cooler weather helps.  I’m also in a cutting season, meaning that with a great loss in body fat, I just feel more feminine.  To say that I’m “focused” is a bit of an understatement.  Truthfully, I wish I was as focused at other times as I am in this season of femininity.  I love it so much.  It’s been weeks since I’ve worn boxer briefs.  I don’t go three days without shaving most of my body hair.  I walk and talk with more of a girly spunk and less like that of a lumbering lumberjack.  And I spent countless hours browsing Amazon and eBay for my next girly purchase (as soon as I have the funds, of course).

The focus is real, but I need more.  I not only need skirts, dresses, and nighties, as well as a dozen more yoga pants, I need more of you girly boys by my side, even if it’s miles and miles apart in the anonymous land of Tumblr.  The world is such a dreary, messed-up place.  It all seems so dark, gloomy, and depressing.  It needs some transforming colors of pink, lavender, or coral.  It needs more soft guys, beta boys, sissies, effeminate men, crossdressers, etc.  It needs more lace and flowers to bring a sense of order to this testosterone-inhibited madness.

I shouldn’t have to beg, considering my audience of panty-wearing heroes, but please focus on your girliness.  I need you to be my girly friend.  I need you to be as feminine as you can in your circumstances.  It’s not only me, however.  The world needs you to be girly.  It needs you in your panties and bras, in your makeup, dresses, skirts, heels, and hose.  It needs you in your capris, your wedge sandals, your bikinis, your yoga pants, your boyfriend jeans, and your pink, flowered, short shorts.  It needs you clean-shaven and perfumed, ears pierced, and nails painted.  And it needs you, if it is your thing, plugged, locked, corseted, and willing.  Whatever your taste, (yes, it could be that too), the world needs more of it.

You might ask, “Why does the world need me to be girly?”  The best answer is “Why not?!”  Perhaps you’re looking for something more substantial.  To keep readers from turning away from long posts, I’ll simply say this: In my opinion the world needs more girly boys because we can be a bridge which unites many islands of estranged thought.  The same would be true of manly girls.  But, I’ll save all of that mumbo jumbo for a future post.

Girly Boys can change the world!  It needs us!  It just doesn’t know it yet.

CandieHart     

Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.

If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.

If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.