I love all the girliness in my life and I love seeing girliness all around me. It is motivating to know that the small pink light that I shine out into the world is helping new girls to find their way.
I know that there are many that cannot express their full girliness out into the world, and that is ok. You do what you are able to. Nurture the girly feelings within your heart where nobody can see them. Look at the world around you through girly eyes.
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
I willingly admit that I love my girliness. I love my current level of it, I love the potential of it, and I love sharing about it. My only regret is that I haven’t embraced it as well as I should have through the years of my youth. I partially crossdressed and enjoyed that, but that wasn’t the same. In some sense, a boy can be girly without ever crossdressing. A boy can also crossdress without ever really being girly.
Girliness is more than wearing feminine clothing. It’s more than getting made up and dolled up. It really is more of a life than an isolated dress-up session. With that said, when a boy wears girly clothing and is also girly in his nature, then it all becomes something very special. So, I enjoy crossdressing. Is it really crossdressing if you’re not actually crossing over? I guess that’s up for debate.
But I love being girly. I love the freedom of walking feminine, talking less manly, and gesturing more like a woman would (or at least as we would stereotype it). Add to that some girly clothing, and I’m over my neck in the most delightful way of expressing myself.
It’s all fun. It’s all intriguing. It’s sexy in some ways. BUT, when it is your life, it’s all a love with yourself–a self-care if you will–as you love your girliness.
Much love to all of my girlies out there. Never forget that you are very special and that you are special to me.
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.