It is totally OK not knowing what path your girly progression will take. It may seem as if you are stuck and not able to take the next steps to become even more girly.
The truth is that some girls push their girliness too far too soon. That creates feelings of being out of control and usually leads to purging. And after purging girls always come back to their femme feelings and try and push even further than they did before, creating the cycle that many know so well.
Doing something that makes you feel girly every day is indeed progress even if it seems to you that you have stagnated in your girly progression.
Just be in the moment and experience your femme feelings. The girl within you will tell you when she is ready for the next step and what that step will be.
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
I guess I’m at that point in life where I’m just letting the chips fall where they will. I’m seriously not sure where my femininity will lead me to next. I’m not sure if I’ll ever move beyond my place in my journey. Am I stuck? With my circumstances as they are, am I destined to be a mostly closeted girly-boy? Or will things take a dramatic turn? Will I eventually find myself once again fully cross-dressing or maybe replacing my entire male wardrobe–even if that might be mostly androgynous? I know I want my girliness to progress, I’m just not sure what the next corner will look like.
I’m okay with that, at least for now. It’s not going to stop me from encouraging girliness in boys. It’s not going to stop me from befriending girlies. It’s not going to stop me from thinking, acting, dressing, talking, etc., etc. in a girly way, I do at this point.
So, what about you? Where will your journey take you? Have you hit a plateau? Are you slowing or are you progressing at a fairly fast rate? We’re all on different paths and we’re all moving at different rates. So, what’s next for you?
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.