We all want our girly looks to be perfect. The sad fact is that way too many of us want to wait until we are perfect before we fully embrace our girliness.
That waiting for perfection can easily stretch from a day to a week, to a month, to a year. All you will end up with is a year of missed opportunities to be girly. If you had just started you would be a year further on your journey.
Whether you are still feeling crippled by fear, uncertainty, and doubt, or have already started, or are already five years down your path; I believe in you.
Take that first step or that next step as it will be one step further along than where you are now. Don’t wait for perfection. Perfection is the enemy of good enough.
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
Simply put, I don’t have to know you, know where you are on your girly journey, or where you intend to be 5 or 10 years from now. I just know there is something to which you and I can relate. We’re girly and we’re doing great. Don’t fret over knowing all the ins and outs. And don’t get frustrated with all the ups and downs. It’ll all come around. So what if you’re a first-year beginner or a 10th-year sage who still feels like a beginner? You’re doing great.
Every girly boy has had to make strides on his/her terms. Are you in the closet? You’re doing great. Are you curious, testing, tasting, treading on thin ice, or jumping in headfirst? You’re doing great.
You’re all such lovely people and I want you to always know how special you are. From the beginner to the expert, the novice to the experienced, the androgynous one to the complete sissy, the light crossdresser to the transitioned, YOU ARE SPECIAL. It’s not enough to say that you’re unique, though that could be true. You are a person of great value and worth regardless of where you are. You’re doing great!
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.