Hardly a week goes by without me getting a message from a girl asking me why I am in some of the forums and chat areas that have a decided kink to them. Those forums don’t seem to be about living girly or being feminine. That is completely true. However, there is more.
For many girls, it is the arousing, kink side of girliness that gives them their first opportunity to feel what it is like to be girly. Many times that is the start of their path to becoming more girly and they realize that their inner girl is a part of who they are.
Both Candace and I try in our own way to help you to feel as girly as you can, whenever you can – even if you start from thinking the girl part of you is “just a kink”.
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
I think we all know that there is a strong sexual attraction to girliness, crossdressing, being sissies, etc. A one-handed scroll through your Tumblr should tell you that. But that’s definitely not the entire story, is it? You know that deep down you have a spark for femininity that is more intimate than the feeling in your panties.
Maybe I speak more for myself and less for the rest of you, but I have a feeling that our mutual love for femininity is more substantial than eroticism alone. There’s an urging, a longing, maybe a passion for sugar and spice and everything nice, and not as much interest in snails and puppy dog tails. Far beyond the nursery rhymes, though, I’m guessing you sense it in your being. You’re girly. Plain and simple.
You’re feminine and wish so much to openly express less than the stereotypical manly expectation. It’s not a sexual release from manliness. It’s a personal release from a guise. You just want to be feminine you–in the open, anywhere.
I’m sure that I sound like a broken record, but I really believe that it’s okay for men to be girly. I’ve written plenty on it before and I’m sure that I won’t stop anytime soon. Being girly is more than a sexual adventure or a whimsical fantasy. It can be those things too. Yet, being a girly boy is also an essence of inner truth that can be experienced more fully.
I hope you girly boys believe that it’s okay to be girly. Even if it’s a struggle, just don’t forget that you’re special and never alone.
Hugs and kisses from your friend,
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.