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Most women who have grown up within a society structured around the patriarchy would not even contemplate the concept of a feminized husband. They don’t see the benefits because the concept hasn’t occurred to them. Understandably when I discuss the topic with many of my married girlfriends who come from traditional households there is almost always an initial push-back. Most of us are reluctant to embrace radical change in our lives because we want to avoid the emotional pain that change may bring. We only make a change when the pain of staying as we are exceeds the pain we anticipate will come from making a change. More than once a girlfriend has raised the question: “why would I want him to be feminine when I can just be with a woman?” This is the point where the concept of a feminized husband is misunderstood. The process of feminization shifts the power balance away from the gender inequality that is created by the patriarchal social construct into a more female-led relationship. This does not necessarily mean that you will always be leading the relationship. Rather, the relationship will be led by the feminine energy within both of you. Initially, your feminine energy will be stronger than his so you will need to take the lead and guide him over to your side. Female lead relationships improve the quality of emotional harmony. Here are 11 advantages of a female-led relationship with a feminized husband. The 11 Benefits Of A Feminized Husband/Boyfriend Are: Feminization Improves Male HygieneFeminization Will Make Him Respect Your AuthorityHave Your Husband Do Household ChoresHe Will Understand Women At A Deeper LevelThe Feminizing Process Reduces Male AggressionFeminization Stops Bad HabitsFeminization Is Good For His Stress LevelsFeminization Will Make Him More AttractiveFeminization Will Increase His Sexual EnergyFeminization Ensures His FaithfulnessFeminization Will Make Your Man More Gentle Let’s take a look at each of these benefits in greater detail so that you can see how each can enhance your relationship. Feminization Improves Male Hygiene When you introduce a guy to the world of female hygiene, it will drastically change his own levels of hygiene for the better. Very few men know how to properly take care of their bodies the way females do. The majority are just average if that. By teaching your partner proper shaving of body hair and moisturizing you will introduce him to the smooth comfort and sweet, clean smell it brings. Another one of the hygienic benefits of feminization is the way men stand to pee. By making him sit on the toilet to pee like a woman it will allow him to understand how disgusting those droplets of urine on the side of the toilet are. If he does ever stand to pee again he will know to aim well and to wipe off the seat after he is finished. Sitting to pee is so important that it is included as step 3 of the 40-steps to femme program here on Pink Femme. In fact, if you are looking to feminize your man I highly recommend that you use the 40-step program as your guide. Feminization Will Make Him Respect Your Authority Even though playing dress-up with your husband in the bedroom is a great starting point, your end goal goes far beyond that. Don’t underestimate the psychological impact that keeping him outside his comfort zone has. It will mold him to your will. In your dress-up game, make sure that he is dressing up in a way that exposes some part of his body to please/attract you while you don’t wear anything revealing at all. This will get his attention and will make him feel more exposed and submissive. Get him to wear the high heels for a change. It does more than just physically throw him off balance. Now that the roles are reversed, he will feel what it is like to be treated as if all that matters is his body. Putting a guy in this position would make him understand the vulnerability of a woman and stimulate his respect for women in general. Have Your Husband Do Household Chores Some extremists go as far as to turn their husbands into their maids. They are making him do all the household chores to gain some time to pick up a hobby, lounge around, or hang out with friends. However, this is often a step too far for many husbands. Just introducing him to a few chores will show him the importance of helping you out around the house. He will understand that it’s not just the wife’s duty to do tasks. The husband is just as capable. After all, you both live in that house. Introducing the cleaning habit to a man will lead him to tidy the house on his own accord and ensure it stays the same as he'll become aware of the importance of a clean house. Be sure to include some element of your dress-up game while doing household chores so that you can keep his arousal levels up while he is doing his chores. He Will Understand Women At A Deeper Level By now you’re probably wondering, “will feminizing my husband really change anything beyond getting him to be a more attentive lover in the bedroom?” The simple answer to that is, it will change him for the better. Feminize your husband beyond just the bedroom to take on what would often be seen as women’s chores as it helps him relate better to a woman's situation because he is experiencing something similar. Once he faces the reality of what it is like to be a woman, he will treat you with more respect and appreciate the efforts you make. Switching roles allows him to act like your housewife and literally walk the proverbial mile in your shoes. That will be enough for him to understand how to better help or support you on a day-to-day basis. Feminizing your partner would also keep him connected to other females by way of shared feminine energy and help him treat them the way he would treat himself. This is a process and it takes a while. However, the end result is magnificent. He will be more sensitive to your needs and be attentive to you beyond the bedroom too. The Feminizing Process Reduces Male Aggression If we look at outdated stereotypes men are often depicted as the aggressive and easily angered species. While at the same time, women are stereotyped as being tender and peaceful (except when we get provoked). A feminized man will learn to and understand how to express his opinion or feelings to a woman without getting angry or belittling his partner. The reason men are usually quicker to get in fights than women is not just a result of high testosterone levels. It is that testosterone levels spike higher when adrenalin spikes. Through feminization, his high testosterone spikes will be toned down and make him calmer in the actions he takes. Feminization Stops Bad Habits Through the process of feminizing your man, you are introducing him to your perspective and the feminine way of life. He should learn etiquette just like women do as we grow up. By this, I mean how to sit, walk, talk, and the aura to give off by the way we carry ourselves in public. This would carve him into a true gentleman by the time the process is complete and will improve your relationship. More importantly, irritating bad habits like biting nails in public, peeing on the toilet seat, speaking over someone, and suchlike would reduce over with time as well. He will start paying attention to his surroundings and act accordingly. Feminization Is Good For His Stress Levels What most wives don’t realize is that feminization takes the weight of the world off your man’s shoulders. He no longer has to exude the posture of playing the ‘know-it-all’ role. When it comes to the feminine role you are the one that knows it all and he can relax and de-stress. This reduction of stress means that your sex life might also improve because stress kills libido. This is also likely because once the two of you understand each other better within your relationship, improvement in other aspects of your relationship will be sure to follow. Feminization Will Make Him More Attractive There can be no doubt that feminization always enhances good looks. What I mean by this is that all the additional grooming he has learned can only improve his looks. He will look better than ever, continually glowing. Another spin-off is that he will begin to become aware of his diet and will likely make better health and fitness choices on a daily basis. Feminization Will Increase His Sexual Energy Understandably many women don’t realize it's a major turn-on for a wife to have her husband dress up as a woman for her. The turn-on comes from seeing how much further a husband is willing to go for his wife's pleasure than she had contemplated. However, it can be seen as another type of kinky role play between couples that keeps sex very exciting. More so, sex is a powerful tool in a wife's hand for persuading her husband to make feminine changes. Most men out there enjoy being submissive to their sexual partners as much as they like to dominate as well. Many don’t realize it because they just haven't tried it yet. No matter how dead or dull your sexual life has become, this type of role-playing will wake it up once you get past any initial awkward giggling. One way to keep him on board with your “program” is to start him in some of your underwear in bed as a kinky role-play and then connect “getting some” spontaneously with wearing something feminine under his normal clothes 24/7. Feminization Ensures His Faithfulness As we have already discussed, feminization allows a guy to appreciate the woman in his life more as he is more in tune with his emotions. With this heightened emotional awareness, your man will desire to always be there for you to show how much he cares. As a result, sleeping with another woman will likely not be on the table. Aside from the emotional component, there is a practical aspect that will keep him faithful. If you keep your man in ultra-feminine undergarments of satin and lace whenever he is away from home he is less likely to be shedding his outer clothes at the first opportunity. Feminization Will Make Your Man More Gentle As I mentioned earlier, feminizing your man will change his entire demeanor. The clothes we wear have a psychological impact on us. For example, a soldier will act very differently between being in uniform and out of uniform. So use your womanly wiles to get him into one of your robes over his silky undies while relaxing at home with you in the evening. You will notice how much calmer he becomes as his macho stress melts away. As you can clearly see there are distinct advantages to feminizing your husband or boyfriend. I challenge you to try it for yourself. I’d love to read your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. And share this list of benefits with your girlfriends as well. To help you through the process of feminizing your man, use the 40-Steps To Femme program right here on Pink Femme as your guide. Remember that when you do start to dress him from head to toe as your own personal Barbie doll, you should take his measurements so that you can put him in outfits that flatter his femme body shape. I wrote a detailed guide about how to measure his femme body shape and the outfits that will flatter each body shape. Check it out.