Being kind, supportive, and loving is part of the essence of girly personality traits. Being kind to those around us comes naturally because we are girly on the inside. So, starting today, I want you to start extending that loving kindness inwardly as well.
The next time you look at yourself in the mirror and start asking why you were born looking the way you do and wanting to look different; I want you to remember one important thing… Every girl I know does that – me included. So, wanting to look different is an expression of your girliness and proves that you are a girl inside.
Instead of hating yourself for what you see in the mirror, realize that you are in that moment expressing the femme part of who you are. Be kind to you in those instances because it is an opportunity to be girly in a way that only you can see. Hugs.
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This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
It’s okay. Really. It’s okay. Be kind to yourself even when it feels like no one else would be. Or even if no one else is. Be kind to you.
As a boy, I often look at myself in the mirror, dressed in some girly outfit and think, “Why do I even try? or Why is this such a thing for me? or Why can’t others accept this part of me?” why why why? Maybe I need to wonder, “Why do you worry so much?” Friend… or may I call you sister?… there is so much about you that is wonderful and you are who you are, fantasies and all, kinks and all, because of your feminine passions. Yes, I totally understand the restraints and the conflicting emotions of it all. Trust me. I get it. I get it because I can’t have it the way I wish it should be. But I also know that I have to have self-care. I need to love me for being me. That doesn’t mean that I love others less. I strive to love others more. So, I need to be okay. I need to be okay with me being feminine and liking things feminine. Even if I don’t look feminine, I have to believe that it’s okay for me to be girly, wear girly clothing, feel feminine, and even fantastize about a girly life. I can be that guy and be okay with it.
I will be kind to me as I also choose to be kind toward you–or anybody for that matter. Kindness means so much, but it has to come from a heart of contentment. So, it’s okay for me to be CandieHart.
Love ya bunches!
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
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