I enjoy being girly. Do you?
Does the opportunity to have some girly time put a smile on your face? Does a girly life make you happy?
If you can truthfully answer yes to these questions then showing the world that you are happy can inspire others to a girly life in pursuit of their own happiness.
Many girls get grouchy when they have to dress drab due to life circumstances. Rather than be a grouch pot, look for some small way that you can still feel girly and connect with the happiness it brings you. Let’s rather try and be happy because we have the opportunity to add something girly to our day, every day, and be an inspiration to those around us. Hugs
This post was created by the talented Candie Hart and originally appeared on her Tumblr blog. It is reproduced here with her kind permission. Be sure to check out more about Candie at the end of the post and give her some Pink Femme love.
I’ve been wondering if some of my musings on Tumblr have been less than cheerful–more like pity parties or rants. I hope not. I really try and want to be a source of positivity for male girliness. I would like for someone to read my thoughts and think “this guy is happy.” Or call me a girl if you wish, but I’d still like to be thought of as “happy”.
I realize that I will never be the grand example of crossdressing or a model for sissyhood or the poster child for trans people. Simply put, I’m just a girly boy–no extremes, no extravagance, no exciting exposures, or anything like that. I’m just a girly boy who wants to inspire others to find some value in a life of being a feminine guy. So, I want others to see my joy in it. I want you to see that I’m happy. And just perhaps, inspire you to think more positively of your own life in all of your girliness.
I know that I can’t always be cheerful. I know that my happiness doesn’t have to require a chirpy spirit as if I’m a cheerleader on the sidelines with a plastered lipsticked smile, waving my pom-poms in a cute little pleated skirt (I’d do it if I had the uniform). Seriously though, there are some frustrations, sadness, and dull moments with me and my effeminate ways. Yet, I can still be happy and I hope I can always express that spirit with positivity, love, and encouragement.
Hold me accountable, girly friends. I want to inspire you. If I seem downtrodden, angry, sullen–a real cotton-headed ninny muggins–call me out. I want to be your true cheerleader and simply be happy to inspire every one of you in all of your girly pursuits and adventures.
Cheers to you!
CandieHart
Candie is an enthusiast for all things fit and femme. All of her very creative captions carry the same positive, motivating ethos that I envisioned for Pink Femme when I started this site. Use this link to go to Candie’s blog on Tumblr and give her captions some much-needed love.
If you would like to see more of Candie’s longer-form content with captions here on Pink Femme – here is the link to the list of posts that have been published.
If you are new to Pink Femme, be sure to check out the unique 40 Steps To Femme program that will help you to feel more girly one delicate step at a time.