A few years ago, I stumbled upon a pair of oddly cinched pants in a boutique and hesitated. Were they flattering? Could I pull them off? I didn’t buy them—only to regret it days later. That small...
Your 40 Steps To Become Elegantly Femme
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Okay, real talk — I still remember the first time I really prepped my skin before doing my makeup for a girls’ night out. I had just watched a beauty tutorial and decided to go all in: cleanse,...
What To Do If You Absolutely Can’t Transition? Will You Just Go Mad?
If you’re living with gender dysphoria and cannot transition—whether because of safety, culture, family, finances, or other barriers—I want to begin by saying: I see you. This article is for...
A-Line Skirts: Flattering Silhouettes for Crossdressers and Trans Girls
I used to avoid skirts altogether, worried they wouldn’t flatter my frame as a competitive swimmer. But after slipping into an A-line skirt on a whim, everything changed. It was the first time...
Okay, story time. A few years ago, I went to get my nails done before a big date. I chose these super long stiletto nails that looked amazing—on Pinterest. But in real life? I couldn’t type, I...
If you’ve ever felt like you’ve had to hide who you really are just to get through the day—whether to feel safe, be accepted, or avoid rejection—you’re not alone. Many of us in the LGBTQ+...